Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Rice On the Wall


I am convinced as the old saying goes, "the more rice you throw at the wall, the more that will stick". I've recommitted to throw as much rice on the wall as possible. I am living, learning and loving the pursuit of each and every dream. I've learned not to share all of my goals with people but I've learned to share with them just enough to keep them at bay. I have used dreambuilding to establish and assert myself in a world all my own! My training has led to my kids knowing they can do and be anything they wish during this lifetime.

5 Dating Tips for Single Parents (Ebony Magazine)



• Dispose of "your type." Many newly single parents re-enter the social scene seeking the exact replica of the type of people they have dated in their past—good or bad.


• Reject the notion that your next significant other is in one specific location, such as at the nightclub. Don’t expect to meet the love of your life at these events. You could meet your next love interest on an elevator, on the subway or through a friend.

• Single parents and singles in general should be open to the synchronicities of life and allow for opportunity to usher in friendship, and then love.

• While Sisterhood is a beautiful thing, don’t go out with your girlfriends and stick with them all evening. Split up from the girls and socialize with other people.

• Join a local dating group or organization for singles such as www.Flirtingtime.com or www.Meetup.com. These groups host live events in different cities on a regular basis.

PLAN YOUR DAY/WORK YOUR PLAN

With all of the planning devices available today. It is sometimes hard to coordinate all of the features to effectively remind you of your planned events.

Tips:
  1. Plan your day at the same time each day.
  2. Maintain a record of the previous, present and future month calendars.
  3. Place only appointments on your calendar.
  4. Information should be centralized (meaning in one place).
  5. Post its aren't good for planning (they can be lost).
  6. Indicate what action was taken (i.e., forwarded, completed and etc.)
  7. File items alphabetically in the address book section.